Odlar.media<\/strong><\/span> x\u0259b\u0259r verir ki, ikinci d\u0259f\u0259 ail\u0259 qurmaq insan\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131nda yeni ba\u015flan\u011f\u0131c olsa da, \u0259vv\u0259lki m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259n qalan emosional izl\u0259r yeni ail\u0259d\u0259 probleml\u0259r\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259b ola bil\u0259r. X\u0259yan\u0259t, etimads\u0131zl\u0131q, emosional laqeydlik v\u0259 a\u011f\u0131r ayr\u0131l\u0131qlar insanda yenid\u0259n incinm\u0259k qorxusu yarada, yeni m\u00fcnasib\u0259td\u0259 \u015f\u00fcbh\u0259 v\u0259 h\u0259ddind\u0259n art\u0131q h\u0259ssasl\u0131q formala\u015fd\u0131ra bil\u0259r.<\/p>\n Psixoloq Con Bowlbinin ba\u011flanma n\u0259z\u0259riyy\u0259sin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, ke\u00e7mi\u015f m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 ya\u015fanan t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259l\u0259r insan\u0131n emosional t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259sizlik hissin\u0259 v\u0259 ba\u015fqalar\u0131na etibar etm\u0259sin\u0259 t\u0259sir g\u00f6st\u0259rir. Aaron Bekin koqnitiv n\u0259z\u0259riyy\u0259si is\u0259 \u0259vv\u0259lki m\u0259nfi t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259l\u0259rin yeni hadis\u0259l\u0259ri qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndirm\u0259 t\u0259rzimiz\u0259 t\u0259sir ed\u0259 bil\u0259c\u0259yini izah edir.<\/p>\n B\u0259z\u0259n insan yeni h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131n real davran\u0131\u015f\u0131na deyil, ke\u00e7mi\u015fd\u0259 ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 a\u011fr\u0131lar\u0131n yaratd\u0131\u011f\u0131 qorxuya reaksiya verir. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, \u0259vv\u0259lki nikah\u0131nda x\u0259yan\u0259tl\u0259 \u00fczl\u0259\u015f\u0259n biri h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131n z\u0259ng\u0259 gec cavab verm\u0259sini bel\u0259 \u015f\u00fcbh\u0259 il\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131lay\u0131r. Halbuki bu davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n arxas\u0131nda x\u0259yan\u0259t deyil, tamamil\u0259 ba\u015fqa s\u0259b\u0259b dayana bil\u0259r.<\/p>\n \u0130kinci nikahda yol veril\u0259n \u0259sas s\u0259hvl\u0259rd\u0259n biri yeni h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131 \u0259vv\u0259lki t\u0259r\u0259fda\u015fla m\u00fcqayis\u0259 etm\u0259kdir. H\u0259r insan f\u0259rqli \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259t\u0259 malikdir v\u0259 ke\u00e7mi\u015f m\u00fcnasib\u0259td\u0259 ba\u015f ver\u0259nl\u0259rin m\u0259suliyy\u0259tini yeni t\u0259r\u0259fda\u015fa y\u00fckl\u0259m\u0259k \u0259dal\u0259tsizlikdir.<\/p>\n M\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 etimad\u0131n yaranmas\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 h\u00f6rm\u0259t, s\u0259mimi \u00fcnsiyy\u0259t, ard\u0131c\u0131l davran\u0131\u015f v\u0259 emosional d\u0259st\u0259k vacibdir. Etimad n\u0259zar\u0259t v\u0259 qada\u011falarla deyil, t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259rin bir-birinin yan\u0131nda \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259siz hiss etm\u0259si il\u0259 m\u00f6hk\u0259ml\u0259nir.<\/p>\n \u018fvv\u0259lki nikahdan olan u\u015faqlar\u0131n psixoloji v\u0259ziyy\u0259ti d\u0259 diqq\u0259td\u0259n k\u0259narda qalmamal\u0131d\u0131r. U\u015faq valideyninin yeni m\u00fcnasib\u0259tini itki v\u0259 ya q\u0131sqancl\u0131q kimi q\u0259bul ed\u0259 bil\u0259r. Buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 onu yeni ail\u0259 \u00fczv\u00fcn\u00fc d\u0259rhal q\u0259bul etm\u0259y\u0259 m\u0259cbur etm\u0259k \u0259v\u0259zin\u0259, uy\u011funla\u015fmas\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn zaman verm\u0259k vacibdir.<\/p>\n M\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssisl\u0259rin yana\u015fmalar\u0131na \u0259sas\u0259n, koqnitiv-davran\u0131\u015f terapiyas\u0131 m\u0259nfi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259 modell\u0259rini m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259nl\u0259\u015fdirm\u0259y\u0259, emosional reaksiyalar\u0131 t\u0259nziml\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 v\u0259 daha sa\u011flam \u00fcnsiyy\u0259t bacar\u0131qlar\u0131 formala\u015fd\u0131rma\u011fa k\u00f6m\u0259k ed\u0259 bil\u0259r. Z\u0259rur\u0259t yarand\u0131qda c\u00fctl\u00fck terapiyas\u0131 da qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 anla\u015fman\u0131n v\u0259 etimad\u0131n g\u00fccl\u0259ndirilm\u0259sin\u0259 d\u0259st\u0259k ver\u0259 bil\u0259r.<\/p>\n \u0130kinci nikah\u0131n u\u011furu ke\u00e7mi\u015fi unutmaqda deyil, onun bug\u00fcnk\u00fc m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259ri idar\u0259 etm\u0259sin\u0259 imkan verm\u0259m\u0259kd\u0259dir. \u0130nsan \u0259vv\u0259lki t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259n n\u0259tic\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xarmal\u0131, lakin ke\u00e7mi\u015fin qorxular\u0131n\u0131 yeni m\u00fcnasib\u0259t\u0259 da\u015f\u0131mamal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n \u00c7\u00fcnki ke\u00e7mi\u015fd\u0259 bizi incid\u0259n bir insan\u0131n s\u0259hvl\u0259rinin c\u0259zas\u0131n\u0131 bu g\u00fcn bizi sev\u0259n insana verm\u0259k yeni m\u00fcnasib\u0259t\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 \u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck \u0259dal\u0259tsizlikl\u0259rd\u0259n biridir.<\/p>\n Sevgi yaln\u0131z yenid\u0259n sevm\u0259y\u0259 c\u0259sar\u0259t etm\u0259k deyil, h\u0259m d\u0259 g\u00fcv\u0259nm\u0259yi, dinl\u0259m\u0259yi v\u0259 sa\u011flam m\u00fcnasib\u0259t qurma\u011f\u0131 bacarmaqd\u0131r. Ke\u00e7mi\u015f h\u0259yat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n bir s\u0259hif\u0259si ola bil\u0259r, amma g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259yimizin b\u00fct\u00fcn hekay\u0259sini yazmamal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Psixoloq M. Almara A\u011faq\u0131z\u0131<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n PR\u0130M \u2013 Psixososial Reabilitasiya v\u0259 \u0130nki\u015faf M\u0259rk\u0259zinin direktoru<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n \u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n (<\/strong>Psixoloqla \u0259laq\u0259 saxlamaq ist\u0259y\u0259nl\u0259r Bak\u0131 \u015f\u0259h\u0259ri, Zahid X\u0259lilov 48A, Elml\u0259r m\/st yax\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131nda yerl\u0259\u015f\u0259n\u00a0\u201cPR\u0130M\u201d<\/span> Psixososial Reabilitasiya v\u0259 \u0130nki\u015faf M\u0259rk\u0259zi<\/span><\/strong>n\u0259 m\u00fcraci\u0259t ed\u0259 v\u0259 ya\u00a0050 777 80 04<\/span><\/strong>\u00a0mobil n\u00f6mr\u0259si il\u0259 birba\u015fa Almara A\u011faq\u0131z\u0131 il\u0259 \u0259laq\u0259 saxlaya bil\u0259rl\u0259r. 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