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B\u0259zi insanlar \u00f6zl\u0259rini \u00e7ox s\u0259mimi dost hesab edirl\u0259r. El\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrl\u0259r ki, h\u0259r \u015feyi qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndak\u0131na dan\u0131\u015f\u0131r, he\u00e7 n\u0259yi gizl\u0259tmir, d\u0259rdini d\u0259, sevincini d\u0259 b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrl\u0259r. Amma i\u015fin \u0259slin\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u0259n ki, \u00f6zl\u0259ri haqq\u0131nda \u0259n vacib \u015feyl\u0259ri bel\u0259 gizl\u0259dir, h\u0259qiq\u0259ti demir, h\u0259tta b\u0259z\u0259n a\u00e7\u0131q-a\u015fkar yalan dan\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar.
\nSonra da d\u00f6n\u00fcb qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndak\u0131n\u0131 ittiham edirl\u0259r: \u201cNiy\u0259 bunu m\u0259n\u0259 dem\u0259din?\u201d
\nAx\u0131 s\u0259mimiyy\u0259t birt\u0259r\u0259fli olmur. \u00d6z\u00fcn sirrini qoruyub, qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259n b\u00fct\u00fcn sirl\u0259rini a\u00e7mas\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6zl\u0259m\u0259k \u0259dal\u0259tli deyil. \u00d6z\u00fcn h\u0259r \u015feyi gizl\u0259dib, ba\u015fqas\u0131n\u0131n s\u0259n\u0259 h\u0259r \u015feyi dan\u0131\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259l\u0259b etm\u0259k s\u0259mimiyy\u0259t yox, ikili standartd\u0131r.
\n\u018fsl dostluqda insan qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndak\u0131n\u0131 m\u0259cbur etmir. Etibar t\u0259l\u0259b olunmur, qazan\u0131l\u0131r. S\u0259mimiyy\u0259t d\u0259 s\u00f6zl\u0259rl\u0259 s\u00fcbut edilmir, davran\u0131\u015flarla g\u00f6st\u0259rilir.
\nBir d\u0259 s\u0259hv etm\u0259k m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259si var…
\nHam\u0131m\u0131z insan\u0131q v\u0259 ham\u0131m\u0131z s\u0259hv ed\u0259 bil\u0259rik. Amma insan\u0131n b\u00f6y\u00fckl\u00fcy\u00fc he\u00e7 vaxt s\u0259hv etm\u0259m\u0259sind\u0259 deyil, s\u0259hv etdiyini q\u0259bul ed\u0259 bilm\u0259sind\u0259dir. S\u0259hv etmis\u0259ns\u0259, etiraf et. Qar\u015f\u0131ndak\u0131n\u0131 incitmis\u0259ns\u0259, \u00fczr ist\u0259. Bunun n\u0259yi al\u00e7ald\u0131c\u0131d\u0131r?
\n\u018fksin\u0259, vaxt\u0131nda deyilmi\u015f bir \u201c\u00fczr ist\u0259yir\u0259m\u201d insan\u0131 ki\u00e7iltmir, ona h\u00f6rm\u0259t qazand\u0131r\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnki \u00fczr ist\u0259m\u0259yi bacaran insan \u00f6z s\u0259hvi il\u0259 \u00fczl\u0259\u015fm\u0259kd\u0259n qorxmayan insand\u0131r. \u00d6z eqosunu h\u0259qiq\u0259td\u0259n \u00fcst\u00fcn tutmur.
\nB\u0259zi insanlar is\u0259 \u00fczr ist\u0259m\u0259yi sanki m\u0259\u011flubiyy\u0259t hesab edirl\u0259r. Haqs\u0131z olduqlar\u0131 halda bel\u0259 min c\u00fcr b\u0259han\u0259 tap\u0131r, m\u0259suliyy\u0259ti ba\u015fqas\u0131n\u0131n \u00fcz\u0259rin\u0259 at\u0131r, amma birc\u0259 d\u0259f\u0259 \u201cm\u0259n s\u0259hv etdim\u201d dem\u0259yi \u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 s\u0131\u011f\u0131\u015fd\u0131rm\u0131rlar.
\nM\u0259n bel\u0259 insanlardan uzaq durma\u011f\u0131n daha do\u011fru oldu\u011funa inan\u0131ram.
\n\u00c7\u00fcnki yalan\u0131n oldu\u011fu yerd\u0259 etibar, qeyri-s\u0259mimiyy\u0259tin oldu\u011fu yerd\u0259 yax\u0131nl\u0131q, eqonun oldu\u011fu yerd\u0259 is\u0259 h\u0259qiqi dostluq uzun\u00f6m\u00fcrl\u00fc olmur.
\nM\u0259nim \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn s\u0259mimi insan odur ki, nec\u0259dirs\u0259, el\u0259 d\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr. N\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc oldu\u011fundan art\u0131q g\u00f6st\u0259rir, n\u0259 d\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndak\u0131ndan verm\u0259diyi \u015feyi t\u0259l\u0259b edir. S\u0259hv ed\u0259nd\u0259 \u00fczr ist\u0259yir, yalan dan\u0131\u015fanda m\u0259suliyy\u0259tini d\u0259rk edir, kimis\u0259 incitdis\u0259 bunu boynuna alma\u011f\u0131 bacar\u0131r.
\nM\u0259n d\u0259 kim\u0259s\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 yanl\u0131\u015f h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t etdiyimi anlayanda \u00fczr ist\u0259m\u0259yi \u00f6z\u00fcm\u0259 borc bilir\u0259m. \u00c7\u00fcnki \u00fczr ist\u0259m\u0259k m\u0259nim \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn al\u00e7almaq deyil. \u018fksin\u0259, insan\u0131n \u00f6z s\u0259hvini etiraf ed\u0259c\u0259k q\u0259d\u0259r vicdanl\u0131, qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndak\u0131n\u0131n q\u0259lbini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u0259c\u0259k q\u0259d\u0259r d\u0259y\u0259rbil\u0259n oldu\u011funu g\u00f6st\u0259rir.
\nH\u0259yatda h\u0259r k\u0259sl\u0259 dost olmaq m\u0259cburiyy\u0259tind\u0259 deyilik. Amma kimis\u0259 dost se\u00e7mi\u015fiks\u0259, \u0259n az\u0131 ona qar\u015f\u0131 d\u00fcr\u00fcst olmal\u0131y\u0131q.
\nS\u0259mimiyy\u0259t t\u0259l\u0259b ed\u0259n insan \u0259vv\u0259lc\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fc s\u0259mimi olmal\u0131d\u0131r.
\nH\u00f6rm\u0259t g\u00f6zl\u0259y\u0259n insan \u0259vv\u0259lc\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259t etm\u0259lidir.
\n\u00dczr g\u00f6zl\u0259y\u0259n insan is\u0259 laz\u0131m g\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259 \u00fczr ist\u0259m\u0259yi bacarmal\u0131d\u0131r.
\n\u00c7\u00fcnki h\u0259qiqi dostluq \u201cm\u0259n s\u0259n\u0259 h\u0259r \u015feyi deyir\u0259m\u201d dem\u0259kl\u0259 yox, qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fck, etibar v\u0259 davran\u0131\u015fla qurulur.
\nV\u0259 b\u0259z\u0259n insan\u0131 h\u0259yat\u0131ndan \u00e7\u0131xarmaq nifr\u0259t etm\u0259k deyil \u2014 sad\u0259c\u0259 qeyri-s\u0259mimiyy\u0259t\u0259 \u00f6z h\u0259yat\u0131nda yer verm\u0259m\u0259kdir. \ud83d\ude4b\u200d\u2640\ufe0f\ud83d\ude18<\/p>\n
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